I am always looking for new ideas of how to help our
children cope with their ASD and the challenging behaviour it often presents.
It is common for ASD children to have low self esteem and it can be hard to
boost. I have come across a strategy of highlighting a child's achievements for
the week - a ‘Wow Chart’.
I have been trialling it on all 3 kids for the past week and so far it has
been a huge success. They each have their own Wow Chart (have attached an
example below) and different achievements are noted during the week. This can be simple things that are causing a
problem for them like using cutlery for dinner each day, being ready to leave
on time for school each morning to an accomplishment at school. Yesterday I tried to use it to encourage our
youngest son to go on the rugby pitch for his second training session. He joined in 3 short activities and spent no
more than 5 minutes out of 2 hours on the pitch, but for every time he joined in,
I awarded him a ‘Wow’. It’s only a small
step, but if it helps to boost his confidence and make him realise that he is
as able as everyone else around him, it will do wonders for his self esteem.
Once the kids have 4 Wows they are able to choose a treat
from an old sweet jar we have at home.
The treats range from bargains that I have found in Poundland, to cards
that have rewards written on them e.g. 20 minutes to play on the iPad, watch a DVD
of their choice at the weekend, stay up 30 minutes later on a Friday
night. I may have to raise the bar and
increase the number of Wows they need to earn a treat as they all got a
reward within a couple of days!! Although
it’s not a bad thing to make the initial treat happen quickly, as it keeps them
motivated.
Our daughter has already developed her own plan where she
wants to save up her Wows, so instead of getting a treat after 4, she goes for
12 and then gets the next Horrible Histories comic that is due out in the shops
next week.
Wow
Chart
Earn 4 wows and you can choose a reward from the jar
Monday
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Tuesday
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Wednesday
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Thursday
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Friday
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Saturday
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Sunday
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Tidied room with no
fuss!!
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Went back to school on
first day with no fuss!!
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Chosen as form book
monitor at school
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Helped brother
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